Where have all the good men gone?

They must have all perished in the great flood or blazing fire somewhere.

Was out yumcha with the gang last nite and we wandered upon this topic of all the good men and our expectations of a good man. I was the first to admit that I may be the materilistic girl as I want my man to be financial capable and earn more than me. He doesn't have to be good looking just as long as "boleh dibawa ke majllis". Mike once asked what I meant by that and if I was insulting the less fortunate guys as they cannot afford nice clothes and all. I said that when there's a will, there's a way. He doesn't have to wear branded clothes just as long as it's presentable.

After my confession, Nic and G said I wasn't being materilistic, just merely realistic. They too said that they would want a man who's financially capable, preferbably more than they are. We then pondered where all the men (in general) went. G said they must all be at home, growing fat. After evaluating our workplace, we also realised that that might be true as the ratio of women overcomes the men.

Honestly, I cannot handle it if my men is out of job. I will INSIST that he gets a job ASAP. Afterall, it is perceived that the men are breadwinners of a family. Even though times have changed and women are more capable of taking care of themselves now than the last generation, some things just don't change. Women still wants to be pampered and taken care of, not to take care of their men and pay for their food!

More discussing later, I stated that now a days, there's 5 women to a man. More reasons why men can be choosey and play around. As for us women, we just have to lower our expectations or be single for the rest of our lives. The other option is to be a lesbian, in which case, is happening more and more now.

In conclusion, all the good men are either dead, married or gay!